Have
you ever had to experience a deposition before? For those of you who have no
idea what I am talking about, a deposition is an oral testimony taken outside
of court by the defendant, plaintiff or witness. Lawyers are present and both
parties are allowed to question the opposing side. It’s
nerve racking, intimidating and beyond frustrating.
I’ll
try to give you a little insight on a case that I am familiar with and the
reason I am actually writing this for a blog post. Over three years ago someone
I know was in an accident (nothing serious, just bumper hitting bumper). We’ll
call the someone Jane for confidentiality reasons. The individual Jane was in
an accident with, decided to sue her. The individual will be named Sam. I would
classify this as a rather large hurdle. Unfortunately, Jane was at fault
because she had the stop sign, but crazy 18 year-old her just didn’t see the
individuals car and they went bump.
Now,
back to the present, Jane got to experience her first deposition this week. She
met with her lawyer and walked into a rather friendly looking room with bright
green cups filled with water for everyone to drink. Despite the cheerful cups, Jane
was sweating profusely and I could actually see her heart beat through her
sweater (honestly, her sweater was moving). Of course she forgot to put
deodorant on to top her day off.
As
Jane faced the miserable looking individual from the accident, she almost
choked on her gum. Jane took her seat and decided to just swallow the chunk
already moving down her throat. Jane’s lawyer began asking the plaintiff, Sam, questions
about the accident, injuries, doctors, etc.
Jane’s
lawyer had already concluded that Sam was in it for the money. As Sam described
her “injuries”, anxiety, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that was caused by
the accident (or should I say bump), Jane just let her head fall into the palm
of her hand as her elbow rested on the arm of the chair. Sam began describing
her pain on a scale out of 10 as a five on some days, eight on other days and 10 on
most days. Jane heard this pain description and immediately began thinking of the
short story, “The Pain Scale” by Eula Biss.
How
can Sam truly describe her pain as a 5, 8, or 10? Has she ever broken a bone,
been starved for days, fell from a five story building, been shot or stabbed,
lost a leg to a bomb or had half her body burned? Jane sat staring at the
individual from the accident in disbelief. Does Sam even know what pain is?
This
one time I watched a girl face plant after tripping over a hurdle in a track
meet. As this poor girl fell down, her face broke her fall first. The girl stayed
on the ground for a while, but I could hear her scream in pain. The left side
of her face smeared with blood and small pieces of the track. I would call that
severe pain, but I couldn’t give it a number.
Is
having half your face peeled off by a track more or less painful than Sam’s
injuries? I wonder how that girl classified her pain. To make a long story
short, thank you Eula Biss for helping Jane through the deposition and for
confusing the rest of us about the pain scale.
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